Never work harder in a friendship than you do in your marriage. If that’s what the friendship takes to survive, it might be time for a breakup
Friendships are a gift not an ownership. Enjoy the gift of it… flee from ownership because it always goes array at some point
If someone says takes ownership of being a people pleaser, chances are they expect to be pleased with you in relationship with them. Love always, yet proceed with wisdom and caution. Words from a former people pleaser.