The thing about repentance is that it’s not up to the “victim” but the Savior. He gives it if the offender asks (John 14: 14). The “victim’s” response doesn’t dictate the offender’s forgiveness. We must be careful of the rights we give flesh. We are all in need of a Savior: “victim” and “offender”
Isaiah 30: 15 In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength (NIV).