We are not the forgotten child of God-
If you are a follower of Christ, God is not going to allow something to happen to you unless it’s for your good. The thing about His sovereignty is He has the ability to work it for your good and for the good of others… one Christ-follower isn’t suffering for the sake of someone else. The only suffering that needed to happen like that was what Jesus did. He is going to work this for the good of everyone involved. God is miraculous and mysterious like that. It’s a beautiful surrender when we just accept that we may not understand how it’s possible but watch Him unfold it in His perfect timing.
Scour the Scriptures for yourself:
1 Corinthians 15:3